For positive energy to flow to you, for good things to be attracted to you, you must be be of the proper mindset. Without it, you will haphazardly attract whatever feelings and thoughts (conscious or subconscious) you have at any given moment. The lack of proper awareness, practice, and control of these thoughts (and the attached emotions) is what causes people to attract unwanted events and things into their lives.
We must therefore be mindful of what we're thinking and feeling.
In this video, we dive into the topic of forgiveness and how we perhaps aren't being fully honest with ourselves when "forgiving" others. Watch this video and learn a powerful practice that will help you clear any obstructive energy created by conflict with another person.